Van Nuys

This is currently my own state of mind...I have not posted in a long time to those that know me....this song means the world to me listen to it understand it and understand the world of addiction

Coffee threats

Well, here I am to post so my coffee isn't stolen from under my nose. However, my coffee pot decided to stop working this morning... Sucks. Might have to get a new one or settle with a little four cup maker.

Went grocery shopping this morning at Sam's club--NO COFFEE. Made me sad. Very sad. So then had to go to one of the Wal-marts to get coffee from McDonalds. UGH.

Like a suu~rge~een...


Sorry. Not very random today. Stupid ipod isn't working!! Oh, on a happier note--got my computer cleaned entirely. SUCCESSFULLY this time. So much free space. Had to of course re-download practically half the shit I had yesterday before the clean.

I'd be putting more of my good mp3s on my hard drive atm if my ipod would work. Just stays in "do not disconnect" mode.

You all didn't invite me into your blog to rant about stupid stuff that goes on in my day. You invited me for squirrel randomness. Which--I sadly, can't provide today. Maybe tomorrow. Or the day after. Dunno.

Bastard Sam's club and their lack of coffee.... Pfft. I'll kick their coffee hating behinds. They don't even sell Maxwell House brand coffee! ;3; COMMUNISTS!! *shakes fists into the air angrily*


Buh-bye for now

~RiC@

ZACH AND LAURA PART TWO

+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
yea but it HURT YOU
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
did you not read the part wher ei MADE AN ACCEPTION for you?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
or did you skim over that part?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Yes...yes it did hurt. and yes i did read that part... And it makes me so happy i can't belive it
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
WHY did it hurt you though?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i mean shit
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i told you all of this
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
and it was hard as hell
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
and then it ends up hurting you
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I know....Its just....the idea of you....with.....It hurts....and theres no way its going to stop hurting for the forseable future....But I needed to hear that...I needed to know why...and...i accept them...
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Thank you
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
can i see you?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
the idea of me with jamie hurts you?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Yes...
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
its hard to explain
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
then try
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i did
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Can i see you first?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Please
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
no
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
this is not a bargain
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
you either tell me or you don't
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I will
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Okay, lets me try
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
You see. I love you, and the thought of someone else getting your love....it pains me...i know it was back then and i know your over him. And i know you can't love me right now. I accept that. Im so glad that your alright with me loving you. Its just the idea that you would willingly give someone what is as you've put it unlikely to ever happen, it hurts. the thought that you loved someone, and ca
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i never that it is unlikely to ever happen again
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i said NOW
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
n't love me, it hurts, but i don't blame you and i don't expact you to love me until your ready to, if that ever happens. And i meant with us.. not ever again, and i know not now, i would never expect that from you now. Does that clear things up at all?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
yea
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
And?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
and?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
you asked "and?" im asking the same
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
since thats a really good reason to ask it
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
nio
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
i want to know what you think about it
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i understand why you're pained by jamie and i
but at the same time
i find it ridculous

Ok so - Imma posting a convo zach and i are having...

Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Well you remember when you told me that the odds of this becoming serious were increadably slim?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
yes - and it all depends on how you define serious. but continue
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Well to me that sounded like you have no hope for this
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
thats not exactly what i meant
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
it is me being realistic
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I know. but still....it was pesimistic
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
sorry
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
and it hurt
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
im sorry
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
thinking you held no hope for this
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
It hurt a lot...
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
it's not that i don't. what i meant was the whole long long term thing freaked/freaks me out. i don't want to ever lead you on
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
but im sorry
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I know you are....and im not trying to think of the future, but to me that sounded like you didn't think there even could be one. im not saying there will be, im not saying there won't. but im not weighing the odds
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
that is my effort in trying to live in the now when it involves me and other people
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
with my own - seperate future that only i can control i plan for that. but not when it has to do with other people as well
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I understand. But to me that said "This can never be" like you didn't even acknolage that it could be. Im not being unrealistic, im just not thinking of the odds.
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I know the whole idea of a serious relationship freaks you out....and i acknolage and respect it.
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
but you don't UNDERSTAND it
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
you know where it comes from and why
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
but you don't understand it
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I know that it makes you scared of being hurt again...and you cope with that by not keeping your hopes up.
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
it's not that that's how i cope persay
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
it's how i prevent
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
.....i....i see....and i think i understand
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
..
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
tell me how you're interperating this?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i can't clarify anything unless i know that
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Well....im not going to lie..is sounds like to keep yourself from being hurt you keep your heart locked away, And refuse to love anyone. and i don't blame you for that....
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
kinda
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
not that i refuse
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i kinda forget how
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
and lack the urge
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i dunno how to explain it right
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
you don't want to love?...
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
no it's not like that
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
i want to...i just i dunno
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
can't
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
You can't love anymore?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
that sounds morbid
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Yeah. a lot
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
yea
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
god this is hard to explain
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Please. I would help so much...
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
It*
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
ok, imma going to try
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
don't reply until im done
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
k
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
infact, turn around and when i am i shall send you a nudge
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
Ok so, i know that i;ve told you how i felt when jamie and i spilt. but now i shall go into full and complete detail. no holding back on how i felt. We had lasted almost a year, litterall 2 weeks off. I loved him so god damn much that when we spilt i felt unwhole. like part of me was missing. He became a part of me. Hell, even Mr.Carlson called him my other half. I cried every day, more th
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
more than once i day when we spilt. even when my mom took me to the spa in cour d'lane; i cried not during the massage but after - any time i was alone i did. I took the dog for a walk and cried. everday day. I felt like a wanted to get hit by a truck or something (not kill myself. that would be stupid) I couldn't eat, i went from 111ish to about 90 in a week or so. Sleeping became harder too
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
to do. I cried until i puked numerous times; or nearly puked. It had to be one of the hardest things i went through. Right up there with my grandma's death. I mean, this boy was with me when my dog died, when my bird died. he was my first true love and if given the chance i would have stayed with him until i died. I would have fucked him for god sake. He was the one who declined. (good on
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
(good on him)
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
imagin how all of that loos would affect you?
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
having part of you die and break and then have to put all of that back together and fill the void left with something new - something good and healthy. It hurts more than the body (like the stuff I told you - that heals faster) but the mind. it leaves a scar there. You can be totally over the person (like i am) but it still hurts. it changes your point of view on things - lots of things.
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
but i made an acception for you. fuck even opening myself up to dating you was hard. very very hard. and yes. learning HOW to love is hard and will take - as i realized - longer than i thought it would. In my head i though that after i was over jamie that it would be easy to love again. it isn't. not in the least. the first time came to me so easily it was almost flawless; i mean we
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
started dating 9 days into the school year. It is so hard to love again. so hard and frankly i don't want to try to force it along by even thinking about it. thinking about my numerous mental flaws when it comes to the entire ide aof love and how lame i am when it comes to it hurts. like i mean hurts. It makes me feel like such a failure. I mean shit, i feel like a failure over this.
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
something that came so easily before i can't even muster up the want to put energy into thinking about how to love again - but i do anyways which hurts. The idea of you loving me - I'm chill with. But the idea of me romantically loving anyone is hard to do and hurts me to do.

You have just sent a nudge.

You may not send a nudge that often.

Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
done......
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
and?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
.......
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
whats "..." mean?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I...
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
/
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
???
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
That...
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
that is?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Thats hurt more than anything you've ever said to me.....
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
But
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
....

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Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
whats wrong
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
next time i should just say sorry and be done with it
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
No
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
That needed to be said
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
don't apologize
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
can i see you again?
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
Please...
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
no
+*~!:Laurbear:!~*+ says:
please finish what you were going to say before
Zach sees the world as a series of doors and hallways says:
I.....I understand....that needed to be said....That hurt more than anything you've ever said before, hearing that you offered yourself to him...and that you would have stayed with him until....But now i understand...i understand why you don't...why you don't love me. And....I accept it...or at least ill try as best i can. You said that loving anyone now would hurt you...I don't want you to hurt
from loving me if you ever do

Life is strange sometimes...

Have you ever noticed that...

The minute you decide to go put some shorts on, the weather just has to turn cold? Or when you put something warm on, it just suddenly turns into dessert weather?

The waiter at the restaurant always has to bring your food the second you get up to go to the bathroom?

The time when you really need something, it just has to mysteriously dissappear? and yet when you don't need it, it always seems to be in your way?

The attractive girl/guy who you are interested in always seems to come to you the moment you decide to move on?

When you are thinking about calling somebody, that very person calls you up before you get the chance to?

You are always the last one to get the memo about the changed plans for the costume party and end up being the only one to show up fully costumed?

That wrong numbers never seem to be busy but yet when you really need to reach somebody, they never seem to answer their phone?

Existiental dilema?

Ok that's the best thing I can think of to describe what I'm going through at the moment. I seem to feel like I have little reason here for existing. Not saying I want to end my existance or anything, that's out of the question. But right now I just feel like I have little reason for being here. It's not even that though, I just feel like my life really doesn't hold that much value and that I don't feel capable of going places. I've been having this nightmare ever since I entered highschool. Don't know if it's just a fear or if it actually speaks the truth.

You see, I'm the kid who never does well in classes even though I'm plenty intelligent enough. I feel terrible about this everyday because I could be getting high nineties and acing school. I just have so much trouble with it and it is hell for me because I have a learning disability. I've never been good at school although IQ tests reveal that I'm near being gifted. It just doesn't make sense. I feel like a complete failure because I can't get above a 65 in most of my classes. I have no motivation whatsoever to do homework. Every time I sit down to it, I get overwhelmingly anxious and think that I'll never get it done. This anxiety is so bad that I usually end up having to abandon the work because I'm too worked up to even look at it. I've denied this problem for so many years and now it's so bad that there seems to be no hope in fixing it.

It's horrible because I have a little brother who really looks up to me and sees me as one of the most important people in his life. How can I ever be a good role model if I can't even do good in school? I also have younger friends to set a good example for. I want them to do good in school and stay out of trouble, but how can I say that when I can't even do it myself?

Philosophical banter from the pie.

This journey we call life is certainly not an easy one. It has it's ups and downs. Good times and bad times. Life is like a roller coaster. At times it can be like a freaking stomach dropping, death defying Six Flags number, other times it can be a merely mellow childern's ride that can put you to sleep or piss you off because it's so boring. Sometimes the ride can be so overwhelming and intense that it will make you lose your lunch and think about pulling the emergency stop button. The only problem is that life doesn't come with an emergency stop. There really is no way of exiting the ride until you reach the end. Unless of course, you decide to squeeze yourself out of the restraints, but let's not even go there.

What is the true meaning of life you may ask. Well, there really is no exact answer. And no answer is right or wrong either. In fact, everybody has their own differents answers. Life is not something that is quatitative and can be measured like mathematics. It depends purely upon the individual. Two people can have drastically different views based upon their own personal values and experiences. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having different views than somebody else. Everybody experiences the ride differently. Some may be scared by it and others may be amused. Whatever your reaction though, just sit back and enjoy the ride. You only get one ticket so you might as well just let it thrill you and chill you, instead of hating it.